Men:  A Dating PSA

Men: A Dating PSA

‘Clever’ username? Think twice.  Mr. Superflyjock, Bombastic, and Mylipsarelikemorphine don’t sound confident.  They sound arrogant.  Hasjobcarandteeth, Singleagain, and Normalguy are at best a little sad and at worst, a tad pathetic feeling....
Why did he cheat?

Why did he cheat?

“Most of us have a false idea that a relationship’s purpose is to somehow fulfill our needs and desires.  We look to see what we can get out of the relationship instead of what we can put in.  Looked at like this, relationships are little more than a needs...
Cheated on with lots was better than one

Cheated on with lots was better than one

I’m not sexual enough.  I’m not smart enough.  I’m not enough of a party girl. She is skinnier than I am. She seems sweeter and kinder than I am.  I don’t like music as much as she does.  Her boobs are bigger.  Her muscles are more defined. Her nose is smaller....
Ten Commandments of Online Dating

Ten Commandments of Online Dating

Put your big girl panties on.  It WILL absolutely be an emotional roller coaster.  Not because online dating sucks.  Not because people suck. Not because there are no more good ones left or all anyone wants to do is ‘hookup’.  Not for any of the other myriad of...
REALLY love him?  Or just afraid to be alone?

REALLY love him? Or just afraid to be alone?

Not knowing the answer to that question can mean absolute destruction to your relationship. One of the many causes of infidelity can be your partners need to feel wanted, desired and attractive. Whether that need is driven by a preexisting deep insecurity (that you...