Hatred of Cheaters

Hatred of Cheaters

Excellent.  Let’s chat, shall we? First, I will admit, I am unusually pissed this morning.  I suppose that comes with the territory when you are trying to change an ingrained societal paradigm. To get people to wake up. To get you to wake up.  But…..still....
Comparing yourself to her-a quick way to hell

Comparing yourself to her-a quick way to hell

When it comes to infidelity, comparison is the most painful game you play.  Comparing yourself to the other women or man can leave you on the floor bathed in self-disgust.  Desperately looking for something that will make you feel ‘better’ than them.  The desperation...
Miserable, Rejected and Unloved

Miserable, Rejected and Unloved

Of course, you are.  That is one of the byproducts of infidelity and one of the largest sources of pain. If not THE ONLY source.  Feeling unworthy of someone’s love is perhaps the deepest pain on earth. It triggers our own sense of worthlessness.  A sense that was...
Alone

Alone

“That’s not safe!” Something I have been hearing a lot the last two weeks. Two weeks ago, I attempted to Climb Longs Peak (A Colorado 14er) and failed at my attempt.  Then, yesterday I climbed Mt. Evans instead.  My 4th 14er.  All throughout these last days, I keep...
I Choose Courage

I Choose Courage

Today I emerge from a fire that forged me. Impurities hammered through flames like steel.  Strengthened. Stronger not in spite of weaknesses, but because of them.  Sharp with truth, authenticity, and strength. Nothing on my path was as tough as getting to this place....