It’s Happened—The person you thought loved you has hurt you more than you ever imagined. Your best friend feels like an enemy and a stranger. Everything feels like a lie. Life is crumbling around you and you don’t know what to do.
Does he love her? Does he love you? Did he ever? WHY did he do this? Is this even fixable? And how do you know if he’ll do it again?
You feel betrayed, rejected, deceived, and naive. Emotions swing from murderous rage and revenge to maddening and clingy despair.
You’ve snooped. spied, maybe even stalked. It feels terrible and obsessive but necessary. But you’re still left feeling tormented, confused, and wondering…
Why couldn’t he just be honest? Why betray you AND destroy the trust? Maybe you could have gotten over the affair. But now that he’s lied too, you don’t know if you can believe anything he says. You question everything, and you’re not sure if you will ever trust him again. That’s worse than the betrayal.
Worse yet, you can’t even trust yourself. How did you not see it? You’re questioning everything you believed. Most specifically, your own judgment. If you knew that he wouldn’t cheat or lie ever again and still loved you, the answers might be easier.
You’re broken. Insecure, hurt, and rejected. Whether you stay or leave him, you’re left feeling victimized. This should never have happened. and you’ll never trust again. You wear your victimhood like a badge. It gets you lots of attention. But it doesn’t get you over it.
You’re bitter, and you’re pissed. This has nothing to do with you. He’s the one who f—-d up, and you’ll never let him forget it. You crucify him. You crucify her. None of it stops the hurt. You act strong, but you’re pretending. You’ve become hard and guarded, and no love can get in.
It was brutal. One of the worst things you have ever been through. But you’re grateful for it. It cracked you open. Showed you the truth. Brought you closer to an authentic life. You are stronger, more real, and able to be vulnerable. Unbelievably, you trust more, love more, and are more.
In the meantime, if you’re here, you’re hurting. Whether you just found out, or it was years ago, And if you’ve found your way here, I believe you were meant to.
Maybe you’re still with him, but you don’t trust him. Or you want to leave, but you’re too afraid. Or maybe one of you left years ago, and…. you’re still bitter.
Whatever stage you’re in, this is a a crossroads. The road may lead you out of your relationship. Or, it might lead you into a better one. With him or someone else. For sure, this can be your first step towards a better relationship…with yourself.
You can find answers, insight, and wisdom whichever way the road turns. You can walk through this and be stronger, grounded, and filled with self-respect for how you chose to do it.
Can lead you to the beautiful, powerful, courageous woman you’ve always wanted to be.
Are you tired of feeling victimized, acting crazy, or pretending everything is ok? Do you need more info to see if this is right for you?
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