This is where you ‘Get Over It.’
It's HappenedYOU'RE DEVASTATED
The man you loved feels like a threat and a stranger. Everything as you knew it has crumbled. You struggle with feeling worthless, rejected, deceived and alone. You may swing emotionally from murderous rage to clingy despair. You’re wounded, suspicious and in a constant state of fear. Sometimes you may want to kill him (and her) while desperately still wanting him. There are insecurities deeper than you’ve ever felt. You’re doing things (spying, acting like a psychotic bitch, pleading) that you never knew yourself capable of. You’re humiliated and wondering;
Will he cheat again?
Will I ever trust again?
Will I be alone?
Will I ever Get Over It?
“Don’t get lost in your pain.
Know that one day your pain will become your cure.”
If You've Found Yourself HereI BELIEVE YOU WERE MEANT TO
I’m Teri Lynn and this is where betrayal gets transformed from something that happens to you, to something that happens FOR you. If you’ve been cheated on, betrayed or experienced infidelity, you’ve found the right place and you’ve found the right Coach.
You might expect to hear “I’m sorry this happened to you,” or “you didn’t deserve this.” Perhaps I could say “this has nothing to do with you,” and “your relationship will be fine” or “you’re better off without that asshole.” But, you’ve heard all of that already and none of it helps.
Maybe you’ve had counseling but you’re still struggling. Or maybe he’s long gone but y0u’re still bitter and angry. Maybe you can’t stop hating and stalking her even though every time you look it eats you alive.
You may be in deep pain right now. But, you are also standing in a doorway. It could lead you out of your relationship. Or back into a better one. I don’t know. What I do know is that this door can definitely lead you into a better you. I know because I’ve been there.
“Betrayal can be a gift. It can be transformed into the best thing that has ever happened FOR you.”
tired of suffering?
Are you embarrassed about acting batshit crazy sometimes? Or worse, pretending everything is ok while you’re dying inside? Has hatred and feeling sorry for yourself exhausted you yet? Good! You may soon find that within your sorrow, anger and devastation is….you personal resurrection.
If you’re ready to look at how you got into this mess…
If you’re tired of blaming and feeling like a victim…
If you’re ready to ‘Get Over It’…
You’ve come to the
There are really only three options:
You’re wounded. Broken, bitter, hurt, and angry. Whether you stay or leave him your crucifixion of him never ends. He’s the bad guy, you’re the victim and this should never have happened. You will never fully trust again. You wear your victimization as a badge of honor. It gets you attention. It doesn’t get you over it.
You’re wounded. But, you pretend to be strong. You pretend to have gotten over it. You say you “survived” it. But you are still broken, bitter, hurt and angry. You’ve become hard, guarded and no love can get in. You’re not fooling anyone. Not even you.
It was brutal. One of the worst things you have ever gone through. But you are grateful for every moment of it. It cracked you open. Helped you grow. Brought you closer to your authentic self and a life you love. You are stronger, more real, able to be vulnerable. Betrayal has taught you how to trust more, love more, and…..BE more.
Your journey through Betrayal
Can lead you into the beautiful, powerful, passionate woman
you’ve always wanted to be.
How do you trust again, love again and live again?
By walking through your pain instead of around it. By learning healthy ways to process grief, loss, and despair. By engaging in some deep self- reflection. Your past, your wounds, your choices. It’s not your fault, but it’s a necessary part of your healing and your ability to trust to be honest with yourself about everything. We will look at your relationship, your childhood and how your fears and negative beliefs about yourself got you into your relationship. You will understand why this happened and what to do about it. You will see yourself more clearly than you ever have in your life and along your journey you will embrace some fundamental truths…….
Women are strong…and weak.
Women are beautiful and we also act in ugly ways.
Women are brilliant and naive.
We are as fierce as lions and meek as mice.
Women…..are all of this.
This IS our strength.
We are supposed to be all of it. The ONLY way access what is strong and good and brilliant about yourself is to make room for all of what isnt. You are a beautiful fucking mess. We ALL are. We become strong, stunning, powerful loving women by integrating all parts of ourselves.
Here you will learn how to access your strength by turning to face your weakness and allowing it to inform and transform you. You will learn how to find your strength by embracing the weak and vulnerable parts of yourself.
“Courage is the most important of the virtues. ” -Maya Angelou. You will find it by looking at and accepting your weaknesses. Feel brave, strong and beautiful and learn how to be ok when you aren’t.
The person you trust the least is YOU. You don’t trust your own judgment anymore. And you can’t trust others when you don’t trust yourself. You CAN absolutely trust again. It starts with you.
release and forgiveness
Learn how to stop obsessing. Release him. Release her. Most importantly, release yourself.
Rebuild your self-worth in a permanent and lasting way. Surrender to the truth that you are perfectly imperfect. Learn how to concretely love yourself. Even the fucked up parts. You can be broken AND beautiful.
Learn how to process uncomfortable emotions like rage, despair, grief, loss, and fear. Not knowing how to do this is at the core of all of our suffering. Learn this and it will improve every relationship in your life!
Know why this happened, how it happened and how to not have it happen again.
Learn how to hear your heart, listen to your soul and follow your desires to a more authentic life. Find the real you and let go of the person you thought you were supposed to be. Build a life you need, want and deserve.
Set strong boundaries, and respect yourself so others will too. Learn how to ask for what you need…and get it. These are vital skills that we are never taught but are essential for any loving supportive relati0nship.
peace and acceptance
Discover what it means to be with yourself, not by yourself. Accept what has happened and uncover the beautiful gifts it has brought you. KNOW that every challenge in life comes bearing gifts if you are brave enough to look for them.
Work one on one with Teri Lynn to gain the skills, understanding, and insight you need to become the beautifully stunning woman you have always known you could be. We’re not going to simply ‘survive’ this betrayal. We are going use it as the fuel that ignites more passion, love, and courage within you. This can be a gift. Let’s unwrap it together!
“The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it” -Moliere’
A members only, private, live, weekly call with coach TL where you will receive REAL support, REAL solutions and the camaraderie of others who understand. This is a monthly membership that you may join at any time, leave at any time and feel what it’s like to surround yourself with people who have the courage to get honest, get healed and get over it!
“Sometimes, the only healing that is needed is to be deeply and fully heard and seen by another.” -Teri Lynn
The Courageous Ones
“ Of all the professional help I’ve gotten in the past, psychiatrist, psychologist, whatever, you by far have been the most helpful and I’m not saying that because I’ve seen shabby people. It’s because you’re just that good. You are truly walking in your calling. You are reaching back and helping to deliver women from the enemies of infidelity, betrayal, and the sorts and leading us into our promised land of wholeness and self-love. It is a gift and you are our gift!!! I THANK GOD FOR YOU!!!!”